I planned to do a recap of the wedding shower this week, but with the chaos of grad school starting back, that post is on hold until next week (hopefully). Coming to you this week is an overview of our honeymoon plans. I booked all of the flights today! Hooray! So what are we doing for our honeymoon, you ask? Drumroll please…
We are so excited to go on our fist big vacation together! I think a cruise is the perfect way to spend the first week of married life together! We love food and spas and adventure, and we can’t wait!
I’ve had lots of family and friends asking my mom what Cason and I want, to which my mom replies, “Well they are registered at Target, Bed Bath & Beyond, and Kohls.” However, I’ve heard that the response usually goes something like, “Yes, but what do they REALLY want?” So, I thought I would make a quick guide for the guests who want to know what we REALLY want.
A few quick things to give you an idea of us as a couple:
I am the sentimental one. In ten years, Cason and I will be standing in the kitchen trying to get rid of old things and the conversation will go something like this:
C: “Jess, this wooden spoon has a crack down the middle. I will buy you another spoon if we toss this one.”
J: “Yes, but my aunt so-and-so gave that to us for our WEDDING gift. Can we frame it? Keep it in a box at least?”
Moral of the story: I will cherish any and all gifts and attach sentimental value to everything. However, I am a fan of the personal gifts–the ones that we will use forever and likely not have to toss.
Cason is the memory-maker and story-teller. He likes to experience life and look back fondly on memories. So even though including a check in a nice card may seem impersonal, he’s likely to look back on our honeymoon in 5 years and say things like, “Remember how much fun we had zip-lining on our honeymoon?” And he will be thankful that our family and friends contributed to that experience.
We both like things that are practical and good for everyday use. And we both love food! So, organization and kitchen items are always a good fall-back.
Last weekend Cason and I visited Homestead Heritage in Waco. We enjoyed the cafe for lunch then toured the village shops, which included the potter’s house, gristmill, forge, and fiber arts buildings. I’m hoping to go back and take some fiber arts classes in the fall, if my schedule will allow. Please check out their website for more information and enjoy our photos below! We had a truly fabulous date day (as we like to call them), and we are looking forward to going back!
A photo of us together on the bridge to visit the village shops.
Cason getting ready to enjoy his delicious peanut butter pie.
Cason in front of the gristmill.
Cason checking out the inside of the gristmill.
Inside of the fiber arts building.
Me in front of the fiber arts building.
Side note: Expect more posts soon about my first year in graduate school as well as my upcoming study abroad trip to Costa Rica!
My talented future mother-in-law designed our Save the Dates and sent me a proof last week! Here’s a sneak peek:
Super tiny sneak peek, but isn’t it pretty? Somehow during this busy weekend I managed to find time to order them! (Imagine that!) I cannot wait to see them in print! They should come in sometime this week, and I think it will be a pretty sweet end to a busy two weeks! Now we just have to finalize the guest list, and as soon as this semester is over, I’m going to address these babies and get them in the mail!
It’s the little things that make everything seem real. I mean obviously getting married is a very real thing, so I’m sure you’re wondering how it may not seem so real at times. Well, here’s the truth: life is crazy busy and in living day-to-day with my fiancé I sometimes forget that there’s a wedding coming up and a honeymoon and a new life together. Plus it’s so super far away (255 days, to be exact) that it’s easy to forget that it’s “coming up.” But the save the dates arereal, and they will be delivered to me so soon! Then they will be coming your way, so be on the lookout!
It has been a crazy time with school right now, y’all, so forgive me if my posts are lacking lately.
This weekend my mom, aunt, cousin, and MOH went to an open house at my lovely venue, Vinewood Plantation. I was super bummed that I couldn’t go with and even more bummed that I’ve barely had a spare moment to talk with them about their experience and their ideas. But let me just say that I am SO thankful to have such patient, encouraging, supportive, and WONDERFUL people by my side during this stressful time. Everyone has been encouraging as I struggle through my last few weeks of this spring semester, and I could not be more thankful for that. I promise that I am thinking of you and thankful for you during this time. I can’t wait to sit down on Skype and talk with everyone! I know that everyone is so excited, and I can’t wait for this semester’s stress to be lifted off of my shoulders so that I can be excited too! (I mean, I am obviously excited about the wedding, but it’s hard to show it when I have 2 large papers along with several other projects and major finals here at the end of the semester.)
Another little thing: On Monday night, Cason and I stayed up SUPER late (like 2am, late) to see the lunar eclipse. It was ah-mazing. We mostly stayed inside and went outside every 10-15 minutes to see the progress (mostly because it was rather chilly outside). Well when we went back out right after 2am (when the eclipse was complete), not only did we see an awesome red-colored moon, but we also saw a SHOOTING STAR. It was incredible! It literally looked like it was shooting right towards us. I was so excited! Apparently some other kiddos in the neighborhood thought it was pretty neat too, because we could hear them cheering in neighboring yards. What a cool experience. I absolutely cherish those little moments in time that cause us to pause and take it all in.
Oh, and today is mine & Cason’s first day of pre-marital counseling, eek! We were supposed to start last week, but I think our counselor was out sick. So here we go!
Also, I was going to add the pics that I received from the open house, but as of right now, that may or may not happen. Check back soon!
Skinny Mom started posting daily inspirations to encourage others to #sharemorelove, which inspired today’s Wedding Wednesday post. After all, what relationship doesn’t need more love?
Lately, I’ve been thinking about new/better ways to show sweet Queso** how much I love him. With me going to school full-time and working part-time and him working full-time and going to school part-time, our schedules stay pretty packed; it’s easy to get stressed and to let that stress seep into the relationship and expand. So lately I’ve found that the best way for me to combat this is to stay positive, be encouraging, and pray a whole lot! That’s why I chose these sweet quotes to display for today’s WW.
Hopefully they serve as reminders for us to be kind to our significant others, whether we’ve just met, been dating for a while, are engaged, or have been married for what feels like forever. They’re the one, right? Let’s strive to love them best (after God, of course), and treat them with love and kindness.
Can you tell that I needed a gentle reminder in this area this week? I’m by no means perfect or even good at it, but I believe that life is a process–we must continually seek truth and goodness and strive towards that.
**That’s what I call Cason about 40% of the time. It’s ‘Case’ about 50% of the time and Cason only about 10%–usually when I’m upset!
By now, I’ve probably read every article there is about getting married and changing your name. Who knew it could be such a process just trying to decide what to call yourself.
Do I drop my middle name, keep my maiden name, and add his last name? (Apparently this is the Southern thing to do.)
Do I drop my maiden, keep the first and middle, and add his last name?
Do I forego the name change altogether?–um, no.
Well, after plenty of thought (and maybe too much), I’ve decided what I’m going to do. I decided to share it here for two reasons: the first being that EVERYONE has asked me what my new name & monogram will be, and the second being that it’s Wedding Wednesday, and well…why not? So without further ado:
I’m keeping all of my names. Yup! All of them. I go by my first name–can’t get rid of that. My middle name is unique–not doing away with that one. And there are no more boys to carry on my maiden name–so I’m keeping that one too.
Then I will get a wonderful, new last name! Yes, I’m taking Cason’s last name. No, there was never really a debate about that.
So here’s the question: what do you do with your monogram when you have FOUR names?
Well, I decided that I’m just going to use my first, middle, and new last name in the monogram. I don’t really have a good explanation on this one, besides the fact that it’s just easier to switch the “big letter” than to move all of the letters around. So there it is!
How did you change your name & monogram when you got married?
Hey, it’s Wedding Wednesday again! This week is the official debut of our wedding website, becomingthestones.com. Yes, we are super cheesy and we love it. Feel free to click the banner above and head on over to the site. We would love, love, love for you to fill out the online guestbook so we know you stopped by and checked things out.
Just a quick post this week, but I do hope you’ll hop on over to the wedding website and let us know what you think!
For my first Wedding Wednesday post, I present to you, our ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS, done by the lovely Sammie Culpepper! It was so much fun working with her, since all we had to do was be ourselves! We are so thankful for the memories and the photos that we now have to share with our family and friends. If you haven’t yet, check out Sammie’s website, and look forward to meeting her at the wedding in January!
A few things to note:
I was having a really, REALLY good hair day, if I may say so myself.
Cason was the cutest, sweetest, funnest Cason on this photo shoot. Had I not started getting hungry/grumpy, I could have taken pictures with him all day.
You can click on an image to make it larger–then you should be able to scroll through the larger versions of the images.
Family & Friends: If you would like to see the full album or order photos, feel free to text/email me for the link!
“I want a marriage more beautiful than my wedding.”
This week in all of my wedding planning, I came across the most recent volume of Southern Weddings Magazine. I was so thankful for their view on weddings and their belief that, “planning for a wedding means planning for more than just one day; that there is nothing on this earth more important than family; and that while details are nice, true love always, always wins.”
Throughout this planning process, I’ve found it difficult to express how important planning for our marriage and joining our families is to me, and it is nice to see that people understand. People get it. And while we may get caught up in the wedding planning as a process, I’m thankful for understanding friends and family who know that marriage is beautiful and sacred–that a wedding is a tiny glimpse into the joy that is to come.
I’m thankful for this week of planning with my friends and family. I’m thankful for sweet vendors and wonderful wedding planners. But what I can’t forget is that I’m also thankful that when I fly back to Texas, I have a loving fiancé to celebrate life and family with. I have someone who gets me and wants to grow with me–beyond January 3, 2015.
I believe the path God set before us did not start with an extravagant wedding day, nor will it end there. However, that day will give us a time to gather with friends and family and celebrate the work that God is doing in our lives together. So while I continue to plan and prepare for that day, I will also continue to plan and prepare for my marriage.
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