I could not be more proud to be an Alpha Delta Pi member, for so many reasons. Visiting ADPi’s biennial Leadership Seminar last weekend afforded me an opportunity to see my sisters and all the amazing work they are doing. This past year, Alpha Delta Pi Sorority raised over one MILLION dollars for Ronald McDonald House Charities. Additionally, we raised over $30,000 to go towards scholarships and need-based aid for our collegiate and alumnae sisters. How amazing is that? I am so proud to be part of a sisterhood focused on giving back and supporting one another.
Over the course of the weekend, I learned many things about the history of ADPi and the day-to-day responsibilities of our advisors. I saw members who have been involved with ADPi for over FIFTY years and have worked diligently to make sure that the First and Finest sorority remains that way Forever. I was surrounded by a group of hundreds of women who strive to give collegiate women with a positive and enriching college experience as an Alpha Delta Pi sister. I am excited to be involved as an alum/advisor, and I cannot wait to see what the future has to hold for Alpha Delta Pi.
Alpha Delta Pi sisterhood holds a special place in my heart for the reasons mentioned above, as well as many more. It’s one of those things that you can only understand by becoming a part of it. The more you invest into the sisterhood, the more you see in return. I am so thankful that in this transition period of my life, the love and sisterhood of ADPi remains constant–whether by meeting new sisters here in Texas or reconnecting with chapter sisters from Georgia.
ADPi is more than 4 years; it’s for a lifetime.
Deana Carter–Strawberry Wine, anyone?
All of the advisors at the seminar. Can you spot me?
Two weeks ago I had the opportunity to go to NASP’s annual conference. This year it was in Washington, DC, which afforded us a plethora of tourist-y activities for the week.
First, we hit the monuments, from Washington and Lincoln to the various war memorials. We also visited fun museums like the Natural History Museum and the Air & Space Museum, which are some of the coolest museums I’ve been to! One of my favorites was visiting the Ford Theater to see the place where Lincoln was shot and died.
As far as the conference goes, I would say that the experience will be much more valuable in the next couple of years as I begin to work in the field. While there were sessions geared towards grad students, I didn’t find them to be as helpful as one would expect. Even those seem more applicable in your second year, as a practicum student. So, I’m looking forward to heading back to conferences over the years to continue to build upon the foundation I’m working on in grad school.
On Friday I took a detour and headed back to Georgia to see my family. After a short weekend there, I returned to good ole Waco, Texas. Now there is only one week before I travel back to Georgia during spring break. Then wedding planning will kick into high gear!
As graduate school has been taking up the bulk of my time, planning has been paused. I am excited to get back to that because it really has been enjoyable. It’s funny though–I keep waiting on everyone to get tired of hearing about the wedding, but truth be told, I’ve found that I’m usually the one saying, “Let’s talk about that later.” Don’t get me wrong, I do like when people ask about plans, but when I’m overwhelmed with other things, wedding planning takes a back seat.
I’ve just found that I’m a thousand times more concerned with preparing for my marriage than planning for my wedding.
Vietnam War Memorial
White House and Washington Monument
Tour of the Capitol
Center of Washington DC inside the Capitol Building
Train cars underground from the Senate building to the Capitol
Last night I had a series of strange dreams. First, I dreamed that my family was celebrating Christmas in Arizona. While we were waiting for the food to finish cooking, Mom and I decided to walk outside with my dog, Georgia. Mom and Georgia went first, and I followed behind. So as I’m walking out these sliding glass doors, I see a killer whale jump out of the pool in the back yard and onto the cement surrounding the pool. It reminded me of how the whales slide on the ice to try to catch the seals, and in that moment my dog looked, to me, like a little baby seal. All of this happened in slow-motion in my dream, and what followed was mass chaos. I began yelling at my mom to catch the dog, both of whom were running around the pool like mad men. Finally, I had to run to catch the dog and yell at the whale to ‘GET BACK IN THE POOL!’ Why he listened, I’m not sure, but he did. So that was the first dream scenario that tried to ruin my Christmas.
Then I dreamed that I was driving my car around town when every maintenance light began to light up the dash like our Christmas tree. I’m certain that all of the lights were fake, but that’s beside the point I suppose. I think my dream was trying to ruin my Christmas wish and prevent me from traveling home for Christmas. However, jokes on you, nightmare, because we’re not taking my car home for Christmas; we’re taking Cason’s car, and it works fine. (Mine does too, for the record.) Alternatively, the dream could be about how much I dread the 13.5 hour drive home, which would be accurate. If the cars break down, we HAVE to fly, right? That would be nice. Haha. All I want for Thanksgiving and Christmas next year are plane tickets home.
Needless to say, all I want this Christmas is to arrive home, safe and sound, and enjoy a nice break with my family. I want to eat Nana’s creamed corn, have brunch with my friends and go dress shopping, open presents with my family, and make sure my teacup poodle doesn’t get attacked by a killer whale. That’s not too much to ask for, is it? Cason and I have so much to do in the next few days just to prepare for the long trek home, but we are excited, nonetheless. We’ve prepared most of the presents for our families, purchased new Christmas outfits, mailed out Christmas cards, and done all of the laundry. All that’s left is to clean out the cars, tidy up the house, pack all of our things, and make the journey home. In just a few days we will be homeward bound! Until then…
*The images in this blog come from various artists on Etsy. Click on the images to redirect to the respective Etsy shops. I just wanted to share some of my favorite holiday prints, as I am personally thankful for some extra traffic in my Etsy shop this holiday season. Enjoy!
Why is it freezing in Waco, Texas? I have no idea, but I sure am glad that it’s starting to feel like winter.
I’ve had so many priceless experiences in Waco over the past few months, and I’m blessed and thankful for my time here. I’d like to share a few experiences that I’ve had in the past week or two–since Waco became somewhat of a winter wonderland.
I spent…uh…Brown Thursday? shopping for a Christmas tree. Cason and I decorated ornaments to put on the tree, which I hope will become an annual tradition. I also got stockings for Cason, Georgia, and myself and hung them on the mantle. I love decorating for Christmas each year, and I have so many fun memories. Most years, I decorate the family tree with my mom, hanging thumbprint ornaments from my childhood. Then throughout undergrad I would decorate the common rooms with my roommates–Kristin, Alli, and Katlyn during my sophomore year and my ADPi sisters in the house during junior year. This year is different, but I like the new traditions and new stockings!
My guilty pleasure: when the holidays roll around, I love to watch those cheesy Christmas movies on Hulu/Netflix. They are so predictable, but honestly that’s what makes them great. This season I’ve already watched a movie about an adorable little Jewish boy who just wants to celebrate Christmas and another movie about a girl who falls in love with her boss’s fiancé. Cason makes fun of them the whole time, so he’s not allowed to watch them with me anymore…seriously. I’ve been watching them while I complete my take-home finals…and while Cason is at work. (Since I started writing this post a week ago, I’ve watched at least 3 more cheesy Christmas movies, and I made Cason watch one.)
I also have been giving assessments to children for one of my classes. (This semester we administered the WJ-III and the WISC-IV.) It’s hard to believe that after just a semester of grad school I now have the basic know-how necessary to give some of the more widely used IQ tests in our field. Also, since I’m not from here I had a harder time finding students to assess. So, I reached out and was blessed with an amazing connection. I now hopefully have at least a few parents I can call on who are willing to let me assess their kids throughout my time here at Baylor. I’ve had great experiences with the families and the students all while gaining experience.
Last week I met a sweet family with four boys, and the youngest fell in love with my teacup poodle, Georgia. His mom told me later that he decided that Georgia needed her own play room with dog treats and legos, in case the boys came back to play. I honestly think that Georgia would LOVE that.
On Saturday, Cason and I went Christmas shopping for our family for the first time. We got some amazing local items from the Waco Downtown Farmer’s Market, and we are excited to share them with our family. We also made a cute ornament to put on the tree! Going to the market is always a great experience.
I’ve sold a few prints from my Etsy shop, which has been both an encouragement and a blessing. It’s nice to know that people enjoy my work. It’s an added bonus that I have a little extra cash in my pocket for the holiday season.
Overall, it has been a sweet holiday season in Waco, but I think it’s safe to say that Cason and I can’t wait to be home for a week. I’m thankful that the semester has winded down and I have a little bit of time before we make the long trip home. I know it’s gonna be quite the ride, but it will definitely be worth it. Several of my family members have countdowns until the day I arrive. I have tons of wedding planning to do. I will get to see several friends, whom I haven’t seen in who knows how long. Plus I will get to see several relatively new additions to the family, including my nephew and first cousins, once removed (yes, this is the correct terminology for my cousin’s children–no, they are not my second cousins). Regardless of terminology, I am excited to see my family!
Downtown Oklahoma City–adorable. Last weekend Cason and I visited some friends from home, who are now stationed in OK City. They were the perfect hosts. They took us to dinner downtown at this place called Texadelphia. Cute little combo of Mexican and Philly cheese steaks. Delicious. Then we played Scattergories together and watched a hilarious Jim Carey movie. I love traveling, and I really like that living in Texas now gives us opportunities to travel to new places without having to drive really far distances.
I had my first statistics exam on Monday, and I did well. I’m thankful that I have this class my first semester in grad school because it is the one class where I’ve learned everything before. Intro to School Psychology is good so far because it has mostly been topics about School Psychology that I researched when looking at different school psych programs. Though my Psychology of Exceptional Children class is pretty new to me, a lot of it seems to be common sense so far. There are loads of acronyms that I’ve never seen before, but I’ve learned them pretty quickly. The biggest aspect of that class so far is that I will serve for 10 hours this semester outside of the classroom. I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to tutor a 13-year old boy with Aspergers. I’m really eager to get started, and I’m glad that I will be tutoring him in my favorite subject–math.
Assessment is a completely new class; I never had the opportunity to learn how to administer cognitive abilities assessments. Why would I have needed to? Even though the class is new and sometimes difficult, the subject is interesting and necessary. In order to do my job as a school psychologist well, I have to learn how to administer these assessments. Today I will be administering my first assessment to another classmate. After sitting in class for two weeks “learning” how to administer this assessment, I’m just ready to get the show on the road and actually do it! It’s one thing to listen to someone tell you how to do it, but I have a feeling we will learn more today by administering the test than we have learned in the past two weeks. Experience seems to be the primary teacher in this field thus far.
The theme for the next several years will likely continue to be, “Let’s throw them to the wolves and see how they do.” The perfectionist in me doesn’t always like this idea. I am a planner, and I like to have expectations clearly defined before I embark on a large task. School psychology doesn’t work that way at all. The only way to learn is to attempt, fail, and try again. I like to watch others attempt and fail so that I can learn from that instead of making my own mistakes. Well, that’s not an option here, so I’m still trying to get used to that. Luckily, our first attempts and failures with administering this assessment are pretty low-risk. So we make several mistakes in front of our peers–they’re likely to make similar mistakes. Plus, I understand that they’d rather have us make the big mistakes with our peers and our professors instead of in the school setting.
On another note, I get to fly home next weekend for my cousin’s wedding, and I am SO excited! One, I love flying. Two, I love weddings. Three, I love Georgia. Four, I love my family. (That was in increasing order, if you didn’t notice.) Needless to say, this is going to be a pretty awesome weekend. Now I just have to get through five classes, several homework assignments, two quizzes, and one extra test administration & protocol. Not too bad, right? Honestly, it could be much worse. I’m just thankful for three-day weekends and fun events to look forward to!
Back when I thought I was going to China, I had a to-do list that I was updating fairly regularly here on athousandnewpaths. (Sidenote: If you haven’t read about where the title for my blog originated, check it out here.) Well I thought that I created a Baylor to-do list to replace the list for China, but I can’t seem to find it. So, here it is:
Finalize my sell, donate, & keep piles for my room at home
Extensive cleaning and organizing of room at home
Pack winter clothes Sell/donate clothes & shoes I no longer wear
Organize summer clothes
Pack mementos, crafts, & miscellaneous
Sew a canopy for my new bed/room
Register for classes
Pay bill online
Add class schedule to new Lilly planner
Add GA schedule to new Lilly planner (after receiving GA schedule) Create a budget
Take my dog, Georgia, to get her yearly vaccinations
Take Georgia to the groomer
Find/purchase a small dog crate
Check all refills for prescriptions
Buy more contacts
Bank accounts Get car oil changed and tires rotated and balanced
Compile a list of freezer and crock pot meals Purchase another crock pot
This seems like a long list of things left to do in less than four weeks, but I’m pretty confident that I can manage it! Cason and I are getting very excited about moving to Texas. It gets more and more real every day! I will keep you updated!
Updated: 8/5/13–Only a few things left to do and just a few for days left to do it!
Updated: 8/13/13–I can’t believe the big move is almost here! I finally compiled a list of crockpot meals, which will help tremendously when I do my first round of grocery shopping at the end of this week. I’ve also succumb to the fact that some things on this list will need to be completed IN TEXAS. That’s actually rather exciting!
While several Baylor updates have probably popped up in your newsfeed over the months, this one is perhaps the best. I hope that once you read it, you will agree with me.
Gosh I thought I had posted my Baylor happenings more often, but since I haven’t there will be lots to include in this post.
I HAVE A PLACE TO LIVE IN WACO, TX. Praise! I will be living with two second-year students and another first-year student (like myself) in a house that we are renting together. Oh, and it’s fabulous! I absolutely hate carpet (allergies, asthma, and whatnot), and this house has ZERO square feet of carpet. Hallelujah! Yes, I get overly excited about floors. It has stained concrete floors, which are tons nicer than they sound. I have my own bedroom with a cute little nook by the window for my desk. Hooray for natural lighting in my workspace. It’s the little things that we have to get excited about, people. I’ll be sharing a bathroom with my fellow first-year, and perhaps next year when the second-years move out then we can move into the rooms with their own bathrooms. The kitchen is HUGE. Like I could probably put my pet elephant in there and he would have room to do a dance…if I had a pet elephant, that is.
2nd. Graduate Assistantship (GA):
First of all, the abbreviation GA for graduate assistantship confuses the mess out of me, seeing as my home state is also GA, for Georgia. I’ll use the abbreviation, however, and just pray you don’t get as confused as I do. Now to the good stuff! On May 9th (I remember the date because that was also the day my best friend got engaged and I took secret photos. See engagement photos.), I had a phone interview with the sweetest lady from Baylor’s Office of Academic Support Programs. Well, I’ll say that I anticipated an interview. What I received was a 20 minute phone call highlighting the details of the program and welcoming me on board. Needless to say, I got the GA position, which is, according to Dr. Robinson, a “coveted GA position.”
As an academic mentor I will work with at-risk students to monitor their academic progress and offer support and encouragement as they adjust to college life. I will work 20 hours a week, meeting with about 35-40 students weekly. I have my own office and a huge support team. I cannot even begin to say how encouraging my interview was. It got me even more excited for everything that is in store at Baylor.
Well if that paragraph about my GA wasn’t enough of a blessing, the following week I received this email:
Tuition remission means I don’t have to pay for 24 hours of tuition this year. Considering I am only taking 24 hours of class per week this year, I’d say that’s the best financial offer I could have received.
I know that I’ve accomplished nothing on my own. I am truly in awe of how greatly God has blessed me. I could not have done this by myself, and I have not presumed to believe that I could. I know that I would have failed miserably without the Lord directing my paths and blessing me with wonderful family, friends, and instructors to also help me along the way. That’s why all of this goes back to Him. He is the true reason for every educational, financial, and emotional provision in my life. I know that He has given me these things in order that I use them to shine His light on this world.
I will say also that I am honestly amazed. I have spent too much of the past 2 years underestimating the things I can do with the help of God, my family, my professors, and my friends. I have been attacked by the enemy and been led to believe that I was once alone in all of this. I don’t mean to get super spiritual on you, but that’s the truth. I’m coming to realize that life is too short to waste time worrying about it, especially when you know that the Lord has a plan. I’m thankful for that.
Over the past couple weeks I have been busy starting my new job, but I have also been working on some fabulous prints to go in my bathroom when I move to Waco. I’ve had so much fun making these prints in Photoshop that I’ve decided to list them on Etsy for anyone who may want their own custom prints. Click here for the shop and check out mine below!