By now, I’ve probably read every article there is about getting married and changing your name. Who knew it could be such a process just trying to decide what to call yourself.
Do I drop my middle name, keep my maiden name, and add his last name? (Apparently this is the Southern thing to do.)
Do I drop my maiden, keep the first and middle, and add his last name?
Do I forego the name change altogether?–um, no.
Well, after plenty of thought (and maybe too much), I’ve decided what I’m going to do. I decided to share it here for two reasons: the first being that EVERYONE has asked me what my new name & monogram will be, and the second being that it’s Wedding Wednesday, and well…why not? So without further ado:
- I’m keeping all of my names. Yup! All of them. I go by my first name–can’t get rid of that. My middle name is unique–not doing away with that one. And there are no more boys to carry on my maiden name–so I’m keeping that one too.
- Then I will get a wonderful, new last name! Yes, I’m taking Cason’s last name. No, there was never really a debate about that.
So here’s the question: what do you do with your monogram when you have FOUR names?
Well, I decided that I’m just going to use my first, middle, and new last name in the monogram. I don’t really have a good explanation on this one, besides the fact that it’s just easier to switch the “big letter” than to move all of the letters around. So there it is!
How did you change your name & monogram when you got married?